Curated Resources
Hand-picked talks, research, books, and tools from the world's leading sex therapists, neuroscientists, and relationship experts. Every recommendation supports the science behind our guides.
World-class talks on desire, vulnerability, and the science of connection. Start here if you're short on time.
The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship
Esther Perel's iconic talk on why desire fades and the paradox between security and excitement. Over 22M views.
Rethinking Infidelity
Esther Perel challenges assumptions about why people stray. Essential for understanding the emotional needs that drive desire.
The Power of Vulnerability
Brené Brown's groundbreaking talk on why vulnerability is essential for connection. One of the most viewed TED talks ever.
10 Things You Didn't Know About Orgasm
Mary Roach delivers a funny, fascinating dive into the science of orgasm. Surprising research that shifts perspective.
The Brain in Love
Anthropologist Helen Fisher reveals the neuroscience of romantic love — dopamine, oxytocin, and why we crave connection.
Listening to Shame
Brené Brown's follow-up on how shame silences intimacy, especially for men. Understanding this frees your bedroom confidence.
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